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You know. . . I think the "real self" can be pretty multifaceted. Nobody has just one side to them, right? We're all far more complicated than that.

[what's this. . . ? bean getting philosophical??]

There's the side of you that you save for work, for your friends, for your family, for strangers .. . [a beat] . . . for the people you care about! Right?

So maybe there isn't just one "real self." Maybe you have several.